Is it Healthy for Couples to Ignore Infidelity?

Catch a Cheating Spouse / Surviving Infidelity 

We are all guilty of burying our head in the sand at some point in our lives and infidelity is no exception. The question is what is the long term impact on a marriage? when the cheated spouse decides to ignore the infidelity with or without the knowledge of their spouse.

Ignoring infidelity might seem like a good idea at the time but how do you even begin to rebuild a marriage behind the secrets and lies?

Are you even sure your spouse is cheating on you? Find out how to catch a cheating spouse, you might just find that there isn’t even a problem for you to worry about.

In order for a marriage to survive infidelity the cheated spouse has to:

·        Learn to forgive and

·        Learn to trust again.

If the infidelity is shrouded in secrecy it makes forgiveness all the more difficult and rebuilding the trust almost impossible.

You also need to consider why the infidelity occurred in the first place and the possible marriage problems that could have driven the cheating spouse away from the marital bed.

If you don’t address the core issues and fail to take the necessary steps to try and rebuild the very foundations of the marriage you’re just opening up the door for infidelity to strike all over again!

If your partner has been unfaithful can you honestly say that there wasn’t a problem with the marriage in the first place? I’m not saying it’s always the case but if you ignore the present and ignore the past how can you be sure your marriage can survive the future?

It’s your decision but before you make the final decision to ignore infidelity and bury your head in the sand just think:

·        Was there a problem with your marriage before your spouse cheated on you?

·        Can you honestly forgive your spouse without understanding why they cheated on you and if they will cheat on you again?

·        How will you rebuild the trust in your marriage if you are going to ignore the problem that destroyed the trust in the first place?

It’s hard to survive infidelity, harder than you currently might think and ignoring it doesn’t just make it go away.

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